Time ticks by; we grow older. Before we know it, too much time has passed and we’ve missed the chance to have had other people hurt us. To a younger me this sounded like luck; to an older me this sounds like a quiet tragedy.

—Douglas Coupland, Life After God  (via crookedroom)

(Source: staceylittlebit)

I have an idea that some men are born out of their due place. Accident has cast them amid certain surroundings, but they have always a nostalgia for a home they know not. They are strangers in their birthplace, and the leafy lanes they have known from childhood or the populous streets in which they have played, remain but a place of passage. They may spend their whole lives aliens among their kindred and remain aloof among the only scenes they have ever known. Perhaps it is this sense of strangeness that sends men far and wide in the search for something permanent, to which they may attach themselves. Perhaps some deep-rooted atavism urges the wanderer back to lands which his ancestors left in the dim beginnings of history. Sometimes a man hits upon a place to wchich he mysteriously feels that he belongs. Here is the home he sought, and he will settle amid scenes that he has never seen before, among men he has never known, as though they were familiar to him from his birth. Here at last he finds rest.

W. Somerset Maugham, The Moon and Sixpence (via psychotherapy)

getoutoftherecat:

“My friend went to tear out her carpet in the house she bought, hoping to find hardwood floors she could refinish… well, instead she was greeted by puzzles. Hundreds of them, glued to the floor!”

crazy cat lady to the extreme

(via halfpastautumn)

exobiology:

 

Deep in the rainforests of the Indian state of Meghalaya, bridges are not built, they’re grown. For more than 500 years locals have guided roots and vines from the native Ficus Elastica (rubber tree) across rivers, using hollowed out trees to create root guidance systems. When the roots and vines reach the opposite bank they are allowed to take root. Some of the bridges are over 100 feet long and can support the weight of 50 people.

(Source: narcotic, via pizzacones)

I have a history of making decisions very quickly about men. I have always fallen in love fast and without measuring risks. I have a tendency not only to see the best in everyone, but to assume that everyone is emotionally capable of reaching his highest potential. I have fallen in love more times than I care to count with the highest potential of a man, rather than with the man himself, and I have hung on to the relationship for a long time (sometimes far too long) waiting for the man to ascend to his own greatness. Many times in romance I have been a victim of my own optimism.

—Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat Pray Love (via beautyandweapons)

(via arrest)

theniftyfifties:

A 1950 kitchen design by Armstrong.

theniftyfifties:

A 1950 kitchen design by Armstrong.

(Source: postwarvintage)

retrogasm:

 Myrna Loy was as beautiful as a woman can get…

retrogasm:

 Myrna Loy was as beautiful as a woman can get…

NIGHTNIGHT by DEDDY